Darling, be patient with yourself.

This week I’ve had several people approach me with hard conversation topics. I’m not sure why they’ve all been piled into this week, but whew, I’m surviving them one by one. They’ve been all over the map really ranging from Jayda, her murderer, Quincy’s struggles, or the big bad D word (dating/why I’m not). I […]

The guilt that comes with healing after loss

There’s a few things that no one really talks about after a loss. One of those things is how guilty you might feel in your moments of feeling happy again. To whoever needs to hear this….please do not feel guilty for healing. There will be hard times. There will always be a piece of your […]

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The night that changed my entire world

On November 28th, 2017 my life was flipped completely upside down. It was bedtime at our home. We were getting my two children (ages 5 and 3 at the time) and Jalen’s son (age 2 at the time) ready for bed. We had been at a Christmas event at my children’s school that night and […]

Loving your grieving child

Grief is tough. Trauma might be even harder. I struggle back and forth between which one might be worse. We both struggle with PTSD as well as grieving the loss of our girl. At 27, it’s HARD to deal with all of it. I try to give myself some grace on days that are just […]